Benefit, Concert for a Cause, February 15th, 2014

We might get some visitors to the blog, due to the attendance of the upcoming Benefit on 2/15. If you come to support my daughter, I cannot thank you enough! If I can ever do anything in return to show the same kindness to all of the people that have come forward to help us, I will in a heartbeat.

I must say that the benefit could not have come at a better time. As you know, Olivia has just had her 4th surgery, and she will need one more to be pain free. We have tried everything possible to avoid excising the GON (Greater Occipital Nerve), but it seems that is what we are going to have to do. Her constant 24/7, Level 10 pain just will not stop and it seems this will be our only option.

I have found out that my insurance will NOT cover her next surgery. So I want to thank everyone, from the bottom of my heart, for making it possible for us to seek the relief that Olivia desperately needs.

Excising the GON has been the one that she needs the most, but we’ve just been leery to do it because she will have numbness in her head, probably forever. We are at the point where if she is left with numbness, that is ok. We can live with that, she can live with that. It’s what she wants, just so long as she’s not left with pain, or more pain. We must decide which surgeon will perform this surgery, it is key in determining her outcome. We will be busy in the next few months determining where and when to have this done, but we will need to have it done.

Thank you all for caring so much about my daughter. She is wonderful, bright, kind and caring young girl who deserves to get her life back, and I’m confident that she will. We will be able to put all of this behind us one day soon…with a little help from our friends ūüôā

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Update after 12/2/13 Surgery – Re-do of Greater Occipital Nerve Decompression

Olivia’s most recent surgery was on 12/2/13, with Dr. Guyuron in Cleveland, OH.

http://drbahmanguyuron.com/procedures/migraine-surgery-cleveland/

His testimonials page is quite impressive, as is Dr. Ducic’s in DC where she had her first 2 surgeries.¬† (Links available)¬†I know it’s getting confusing for people to keep track of her surgeries, what they were for and if they were successful or not.¬† It’s been such a journey, a process, and with varying results.¬† This most recent surgery in 12/2, was an attempt to re-do the decompression that she had done in June with Dr. Ducic.¬† The June surgery was her first one, and was very successful….for 3 months until her pain returned.¬† The fact that she had such a positive response, however, was indicative that she does have a neuralgia, that this is a nerve issue, and that another surgery would work.¬† The question was do we do decompression again (and try to ‘spare’ her nerve, or do we go ahead with excision and actually cut the nerve).

Her surgery in October was excision, actually cutting the nerve, in her temple area and this was successful.  She is pain free in the temple area.  She had complications with asthma after this one, but the end result was positive.  The throbbing pain in her temple and cheeks is still gone.  It was right before this one that her Occipital pain returned, however, and since then had gotten so bad we had to address the Occipital area again. (see photos page to see where her surgeries were)

Dr. Ducic in DC was not available to see us again until Jan, and we were hoping that we could get her back to school by Jan so we went to see Dr. Guyuron instead.¬† He is the Dr that actually discovered this surgery, and taught other doctors about the procedure.¬† Dr. Ducic in DC went to him to learn about it.¬† They are both experts in their field, and have perfected their own technique and way of doing it, which may differ a little from each other, but they are both of the same concept.¬†¬† Dr. Guyuron is leery to cut the GON (Greater Occipital Nerve) unless absolutely necessary, as it is a large nerve running up the back of your head.¬†¬†These nerves are only peripheral, sensory nerves, they provide sensation and in no way affect motor function, but I was leery to cut the nerve and leave her with a¬†numb head for many, many years, possibly most of her life.¬† Although where she had excision before, she said it does not bother her at all, and she would prefer the numb feeling over throbbing pain.¬† We thought we’d try decompression once more, just to see if we can spare it.¬† Dr. Guyuron said that the biggest cause of returning pain after surgery is scar tissue, and she did have scar tissue built up, she also had a blood vessel that was pressing on the nerve.¬† During his surgery he removed the scar tissue, and the blood vessel that was pressing on the nerve, he also will pad the nerve with fatty tissue to help prevent returning pain, (I don’t think that Dr. Ducic does this) and¬†he injected cortisone into the area to help prevent scar tissue build up.¬† I had HIGH hopes for this one, I thought for sure this would be the answer.¬† Since she had such great results the first time, it just didn’t last, I thought that this time with a different technique that we would see the same results, but hopefully it would last longer.¬†¬† I was so hopeful, that we met with her counselor and got her schedule set for her return to school in January, we picked out her classes for high school, and felt relieved that we are getting her pain relief and back to school before she must begin high school.

It’s now been 3 weeks since the surgery, and we are not so sure that the results will be what we expected.¬† She always has numbness after surgery, for at least 2-3 weeks, it’s hard to tell the results too soon.¬† Once the numbness starts to wear off, she can tell if she still has pain there or not.¬† There is a difference between the soreness from surgery pain, and the throbbing headache that she is so used to.¬† As the numbness began to wear off, she just told me a few days ago that she can still feel the throbbing on the top of her head.¬† In the very back, where the incision is, she still has some numbness so we aren’t sure what that pain will be, but she said she can feel throbbing there too, it’s just still numb.¬† She was also not sure that this surgery was going to be as successful because she did not get any relief from her light sensitivity, and she did the first time.¬† After he first surgery, she had much relief from the light, but not at all after this one.¬† She also still has constant pain in her eyes, and there is a different surgery¬†necessary for that area.¬†It would be either ¬†decompression or excision of the supraorbital nerves near the eyebrow that cause that pain, many people have success with that also.

We must wait to speak with the doctor as we have a follow up phone consult scheduled for next Friday, 1/3.   They have said that it can take time, and she might have some swelling still but she feels that she can tell the difference between the types of pain, and this throbbing is the same headache throbbing that is not going to just go away.   It leaves us feeling like she needs to have excision of the GON, and sooner rather than later.  We need to speak with both doctors, and see what they say, what they recommend, and see who could see her soonest.  If this is our last and only option, we need to do it asap, to get her life back.

She will need two more surgeries, most certainly, at least 2 for the migraines and we have been told she needs a sinus surgery as well.¬† So maybe 3 before it’s all over, but 2 for immediate pain relief.¬† We were shown on the CT scan where the problems with her sinuses are, and that she will need and will benefit from that.¬† That’s a different issue, it is a migraine trigger point, but we don’t think it’s causing her current pain.¬† The excision of GON will probably give her the most significant pain relief and that might be the next surgery.¬† Either that or decompression or excision of the supraorbital nerves behind the eyes.¬† It feels like there are knives sticking in her eyes at all times, 24/7.

This is not ‘just a headache’.¬† This is a nerve issue, that causes constant pain that never goes away.¬† We have seen 3 neurologists in the past year that were not any help, we just went to another one, hoping to find a decent neuro that can manage some prescriptions, and at least be a local doctor that can manage her care and work with the surgeon to ensure she is getting the best care possible.¬† Hopefully this most recent neuro will be of some help.¬† He is going to try to get her approved for Botox.¬† If she can have that, she might have some pain relief at least until we can figure out what surgery she needs next (excision of GON, or supraorbital behind the eyes), and figure out where we should go to have it done.¬† I really liked Dr. Guyuron’s technique, and he is closer to us, only a 4 hr drive vs. 8 hrs to DC.¬† He used drain tubes which really helped to keep her swelling down, and she did not have any bad reaction with nausea or asthma at all!¬† I was worried about that, but his technique and staff were so wonderful, I was really hoping this would work.¬† He did not do excision, he attempted to spare her nerve which was what I wanted as well, so perhaps excision would give the same results no matter who did it…so much to consider and we need some time to figure it out, but we can’t wait too long.¬† She is going to attempt to get back to school, and that will be very difficult for her with still having the throbbing pain, and the pain in her eyes, and the light sensitivity.¬†¬† I am speaking with other parents whose children have had excision of the Occipital nerve, and so far those I’ve spoken with are doing great and are glad they had it done.¬† They do not mind the numbness, it is better than throbbing pain.

We are trying some other things right now, pumping her full of Vitamin B2, B12, and Magnesium.¬† These are all good things to do, regardless of the head pain, but could provide some help with the nerves.¬† This is just a case where it’s so severe, things like this are not going to provide enough relief to reverse the damage that’s been done, or stop this cycle of pain.¬† I’m hoping she can try the Botox soon, I’ve been told by other neuros it’s very difficult to get insurance approval for anyone under 16, but if we can get it approved we’ll try it and hopefully get pain relief until we can get her next surgery.¬† Botox is very similar to nerve blocks, which give her significant relief, they just last only¬†a few days.¬† I’ve heard that Botox lasts longer, usually up to 3 months for some people, wow would that be nice.¬† Hoping we can try that, and have some time to figure out where to go next.¬† Also hoping she can get through school upon her return.¬† We have to get this improved before she starts high school in the fall.

Thanks for all your support, I’ll try to keep you all posted with updates.¬† It’s been hard to do.¬† I don’t always feel like talking about it, or wanting to air it all out there, but I started this blog to help those that were struggling like my daughter was, and I don’t want to leave it hanging.¬† I’ll have to finish, whether I’m reporting good news or not, and keep it going until the end, until we have the relief we’ve been seeking and I can say that we found the answers and she is pain free, or at least much improved.¬† I’ve spoken with and seen so many discussions of thousands of people that suffer daily 24/7 chronic head pain and feel there is no hope in sight.¬† Please don’t give up, we aren’t.